How To Make Conversation With Anyone, Anywhere
- Jerod Williams
- Aug 9, 2024
- 2 min read
Updated: Apr 20
What are some great one-liners and conversation starters?
Short Answer: Take a genuine interest in the other person!
This is the best and quickest way to develop rapport…take a sincere approach to another. You should be FRIENDLY and APPROACHABLE to everyone you meet. Being positive and confident is something every person is attracted to. This proves true for a potential romantic interest, job opportunity, or even a friend. Simply noticing what they’re doing, wearing, their work, ANYTHING. It’s really that easy. People like to talk about themselves, especially girls. They LOVE to offer their comments and opinions. It’s a perfect way to break the ice. ALWAYS be present in the conversation. Attraction does not lie:
“What’s going on with you today?
“Hey, how’s it been in here today”
“What brings you here today?”
"I love that/those...where did you get it?"
Then LET them talk. A critical component of understanding the art of good conversation is asking GREAT questions. Let the girl you’re interested in do MOST, if not ALL, the talking…specifically when first meeting OR on a date. Remember, girls fall in love through their EARS. Ask and Listen. This is all detailed in my book, it's not hard.
For the more experienced guys reading and natural extroverts…an even better way to start a conversation is expressing your interest in the way she looks IMMEDIATELY. Remember, ALWAYS ensure it’s authentic and emboldened…something you actually noticed about her. Girls LOVE feeling good and being beautiful. Statements like:
“You’re really stunning/beautiful…”
“Amazing how (name any physical characteristic; eyes, hair, height)…”
“Who wouldn’t miss you?”
“It’s a good thing I already know your name, ‘the prettiest girl in’ (city, town)…”
"How many men make passes/hit on you...(await response)...So you don't mind that I do it?"
There is NOTHING wrong or creepy by doing this because it’s the truth, YOUR truth. Once you become approachable, OTHER people become approachable. Remember, like attracts like. If anything, she will be thankful for how forthright you were. It's very masculine and attractive to do so anyhow. There are so few guys actually approaching girls now with a sincere desire to get to know them. They rather cowardly 'slide' into her DM's, which won't work (that's why you NEVER ask a girl for her socials and ONLY for her number.) This behavior is the SEPARATOR. It's ONLY when you’re unsure of yourself…in what you witness as a man towards a woman, when it gets creepy. You become neurotic, get into your own head, thus your own success. The words don't come to you nor does the delivery flow naturally. Remember, you are giving her a GREAT chance at revealing attraction between two people. You will beat yourself for NOT doing it. TRUST ME.
By doing this, you’ll become so skilled that it becomes second nature, and you can make conversation with anyone, anywhere. It’s an art, a process of understanding yourself and how you express it. All it requires is REPETITION.